Why Me? Was I Getting Strung Along Thise Whole Time Like A Puppet..or Was This Love For Real?

So me and my ex-boyfriend were trying to work things out these past few weeks. We’re both 20 years old, live in the same town, and were together for almost 2 years. Honestly, we have been having fun and enjoying each other recently..but ever since a few days ago we’re pretty much no longer speaking.
We broke up because we kept fighting about the same things. I felt like I was being taken advantage of, because he doesn’t have his drivers license and was jobless for months and I’m assuming I was always never in the best mood because he’d be rude to me which made me not feel good about myself. He’d say I was boring, that I had no sense of humor, and that I was annoying sometimes. It really brought me down and still is slightly affecting my self esteem. When he did have some money he’d only buy us food and when he ran out of his cash, he’d always complain saying “what a waste” it was. He has an official job now but still no license, and even though there’s a semi-good reason behind it, it’s definitely not stopping him from getting it.
I fell in love with him because I thought he was really funny, sweet, a good person, and not like most guys. I really believed I found my prince charming and the relationship I’ve been hoping for. However, as time went on everything started to change. There was never ever any PDA but since I’m his first girlfriend I didn’t think much of it at first, eventually it got on my nerves though. When I asked him about it he said “he didn’t need to show he loved me by holding my hand”, and that “if I wanted to hold his hand I could”. He’s a virgin too and never once mentioned sex; whenever I brought that up too he’d just get irritated. Plus, when he was around his family I always felt awkward and like I was never good enough; he’d laugh at every word his sister or brother said but then make sarcastic comments when I’d say something. I guess him calling me names and stuff is part of that as well.
Anyway, seeing him again has been nice, but we’re still arguing. With the constant driving us around, it’s really taken a toll on my money situation. I live with my parents but I have to pay for my own car. I have insurance and tires coming up and I can’t afford to drive his lazy *** around anymore, so as I was trying to tell him this, he got angry and was trying to tell me him/driving him around has nothing to do with what I’m dealing with. He says my reckless-ness with my spending is the main cause of my lack of savings at the moment. How in the hell can someone who has never had any responsibilities in their life, tell me how to feel or what to do?
Yesterday he randomly texted me telling me when he was off work “in case I was wondering”, so I said “sure come over after! Have your dad drop you off” and he never responded. I texted him later asking if he was coming over and he said “No I can’t today I’m busy actually”..then why did you tell me when you were ******* off work out of nowhere? I’m certain he made other plans with his friend, I think I asked.
I got upset and tried texting him for hours but he never said anything. The last text I said him was “if you’re ignoring me because you’re with (name), than you’re a complete douche. Don’t ever talk to me ever again” and a few hours later he finally said “haha yeah you always have such nice things to say I don’t want to date someone like that” (or something along those lines) and he hasn’t texted or called since.
I’m still sad, for some reason, should I have just let everything go and stopped thinking so much about everything? Or was I being used. I seem to get screwed over often…and I truly thought we were meant to be. We got along well, for the most part, and he made me laugh all the time. I don’t know what to think, or how to feel right now…any advice?