My boyfriend’s birthday was yesterday but last Sunday he was telling me how he’ll probably have a party this Saturday instead of on his actual birthday. His exact words were “Well…my family will probably have a party for me on Saturday or something but I’m not sure yet.”
Well, that same day my dad tells me that my Grandma’s 75th birthday party is Saturday. He said I didn’t have to go if I had other plans, so I got her a gift since I wasn’t planning on going.
Two days ago I asked my boyfriend if his party was Saturday. He said “I don’t know yet…maybe…why do you ask?” And I told him about my Grandma’s birthday and he told me “Aww, you should go to her party babe.” I told him “No it’s okay, I just got her a gift instead. It’ll be alright if I don’t go.”
Last night I asked him again about his party and he said “I don’t know if it’ll be Saturday or if they’re even having one for me…”
So pretty much since he didn’t know for sure I just planned on going to my grandma’s instead. Well tonite he tells me his party is tomorrow for sure and he asks me if I’m going. I said “I don’t know…I’ll have to think about it.” I really didn’t know which one I was going to. Basically, since I kept asking him when his was and he didn’t know for sure I just sort of decided I would go to my grandma’s instead.
Now he’s mad, saying “You said you got your grandma a gift so you could come to my party now you changed your mind…”
Am I wrong? I don’t feel wrong, but I do feel bad.
Do You Think I Was Wrong About This?
July 3rd, 2010
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If you snooze you lose. He lost. You were willing to go to his party, but he procrastinated and didn’t give you a for sure answer. He even TOLD you to go to your grandma’s. You can’t spend your whole life waiting on his every word. Tell him to get it together quicker next time!
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his loss. he should have told you earlier. it’s like almost failing a class and then deciding you’re going to try harder…tough luck. your grandmother, dare i say it, doesn’t have many more birthdays left. go to hers, tell your boyfriend…next year…if it lasts that long..he’s being really immature.
you are right, he is wrong. yea, it’s alright to feel bad. but hey, you tried.
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No, you’re right. He wouldn’t give you a time, so you made other plans. It’s his loss. Plus, your grandma is 75 and your boyfriend is pretty young, spend as much time with family as you can.